Tuesday, August 22, 2017

Lady Pamela Interviews Miss Bates!

Miss Bates...The Interview





 I am delighted to have you join me as I have recently had the pleasure of interviewing Miss Bates of Highbury .    I have always admired Miss Bates, and felt sure the rest of you would enjoy our conversation.  I was able to arrange the interview, rather extemporaneously, while recently in Highbury on a shopping expedition.  I  happened  to pass her on the street, and upon introductions (as I am a  distant relation of the Coles in Highbury) she begged me to join her and her esteemed mother for a spot of tea in their cosy parlor.

Miss Bates:  Oh my. How is Lord Foster's health? We have been making anxious inquiries about him since we have heard of his troubles.  Perhaps he should take a bit of Water -Gruel?  Is that not what  your friend Mr. Woodhouse takes?  But his must be nice a smooth gruel, thin, but not too thin.   And thank you so for your visit, you are too kind to visit.  Mr. Elton was here the other day and brought us these shoes.  He is always showing such kindness and felicity to the poor of the town.  Now please sit down and have some of the sweet cake from the buffet.

Lady Pamela:  Thank you so much for  so cordially and gratefully welcoming me to join you and Mrs. Bates in for some tea. Yes, Lord Foster is doing much better, he is an excellent patient, lies quietly in bed and is ready to swallow anything.  He lives upon medicine, tea and barley water.   I will tell him of the water gruel you speak so highly of.

Miss Bates:  Oh , yes!  He must certainly have the water gruel.  It is sure to raise his spirits.  The apothecary may also recommend a stout Dandelion tea, I  approve of it  highly.  I believe the Campbells are quite taken with dandelion tea, by my honour!  With some slight alterations , he will have a strong constitution, as strong as my mother's.  "Ma'am", Do you hear  what I am recommending to Lady Pamela?  The DANDELION TEA?"




Lady Pamela:  I will be sure to recommend the water gruel and the dandelion tea as you suggest to Lord Foster.   Um, I thought I heard from Mrs. Cole that you had received a letter  recently from your pen friend of the Jane Austen Letter Writing Society?

Miss Bates: Oh here it is! I was sure it could not be far off, but I had put my huswif on it, you see , without being aware, and so it was quite hid, but I had it in my hand so very lately that I was almost sure it must be on the table.  I was reading it to Mrs. Cole, and since she went away, I was reading it again to my mother, for it is such a pleasure to her--a letter from the Jane Austen Letter Writing Society--that she can never hear it often enough!  Oh yes, I received a lovely letter, from Mrs. P___  of the Society, what a great pleasure, and such a handsome letter, I do declare.  And it was not her turn for writing. But you see, just like her, so considerate!  Such a handsome letter, yes it is--is it not, mother?  "THE LETTER , MOTHER, THE LETTER FROM THE SOCIETY?"  Bless me,  Upon my honour!

Lady Pamela:  Oh , indeed it is quite handsome!!  It is charming and I know it filled you all with felicitous joy.  And so cleverly made.  I  must see what I can do to make mine as clever as this letter from your Mrs. P___!  I make it my way to have something entertaining...be it  prose or verse, original or repeated, or two things moderately clever--or three things  very dull indeed!   But, I am afraid I must be running away, I had no intention, no power of staying more than five minutes.

And as I walked down the road, I reflected upon the good Miss Bates.

“Miss Bates…had never boasted either beauty or cleverness. Her youth had passed without distinction, and her middle of life was devoted to the care of a failing mother, and the endeavour to make a small income go as far as possible. And yet she was a happy woman, and a woman whom no one named without good-will. It was her own universal goodwill and contented temper which worked such wonders. She loved every body, was interested in every body’s happiness and quick-sighted to every body’s merits; thought herself a most fortunate creature, and surrounded with blessings in such an excellent mother and so many good neighbours and friends, and a home that wanted for nothing. The simplicity and cheerfulness of her nature, her contented and grateful spirit, were a recommendation to every body and a mine of felicity to herself.”






The idea of an interview with one of my favorite characters of Jane Austen, [EMMA]  our dear Miss Bates, sprang from my introduction email with my pen friend from the Jane Austen Letter Writing Society!  Lady Simone had requested that we try our hand at writing "in character" .  Unfortunately, I have been a rather poor correspondent this exchange, so we never got to really discuss this aspect, but it DID get me thinking.   At first I thought of sending a letter , in character, and perhaps extending their story...but I really didn't have the time to do so.  Then I thought of  the interview angle, and thought that I could lift a scene or two involving dear Miss Bates, randomly insert some of MY life....skip around and throw in  a few quotes from Jane's letters and here you have it.


I went ahead and sent a copy of the interview  (my letter), a card, tag and a single serving of Dandy Blend to sip while reading it all.  I hope she enjoys it.   By the way, Lady Simone had one of the cutest applications for the Society!  She has a great sense of humor, and hope she will sign up for the next exchange, to bless another member!


Oh, and yes, there is a back side to the envelope...properly sealed, Jane approved!

Write Letters,
Write Often!

Lady Pamela

Sunday, August 20, 2017

Lady Caren Mail...


Black and White Seems Just Right...


Here is my most recent letter to Lady Caren....it is from some time ago, but it is always good to stay in touch, even if it is infrequently.  Who doesn't like having some gorgeous , or just fun mail that isn't a bill or a piece of advertisement?  A letter really is a "gift", isn't it?  A gift of time, thoughts, efforts, etc. 



This is a letter from way back in January?    I found the  picture and just thought I'd share it with you.




If you are wanting to send some beautiful mail, the start you may need is the Jane Austen Letter Writing Society Kit.  It is full of just about everything you will need to send out lovely letters.  You can find the details here .

Write Letters,
Write Often.

Lady Pamela











Wednesday, August 16, 2017

JALWS Fall Pen Friend Sign Ups Now....


Fall Pen Friend Exchange: 

Applications accepted:  Now (8/16/17) through Wednesday August 30th.  
Pen Friend match ups should be completed:  by Wednesday 9/6  Emails will start going out to participants by that date.

Basic Requirements:  
1. Basic command of the English language.
2. You must have read at least one of Jane       Austen's novels.  This is a Literary Society and a Letter Writing Society.
3. You must be at least 18 years of age.  Contact me per email for exceptions to this rule.

  • Important:  if you have been a member of the Society in the past, you must still sign up each exchange you want to be a participant.  


It is time for a new FALL Pen Friend Exchange.  This is where I personally select a pen friend for you based on your completed application.  The application (see the menu bar at the top of this page to access the form) allows me to  match you  according to your preferences.  This is not a perfect system, but I do try my best.

Directions:  1. Fill out application form (at the top of the page, menu bar) by cutting  and pasting  it into an email, 2. and then sent to me at :  JALWSociety@gmail.com  The deadline for applications is:  Wednesday, August 30th , 2017

I will be monitoring my email box :  JALWsociety@gmail.com  and begin processing the applications.    You might not get a response from me immediately, but I hope to start working on them this weekend.   If you have sent in an application since the last exchange, I will be notifying you  and double checking that you still want to participate.  You will be notified of your pen friend  by email after the deadline, sometime around September 6th. .  It usually takes me about 2-3 days to get it all worked out.  :-)


I would ask that you only join the pen friend exchange if you truly will follow through on your commitment .  This means that you will write your pen friend, and usually this involves several letters over the course of  2-3 months.  To avoid "flakers", yes, JALWS is not immune to this,  I have had to start invoking a 4 letter minimum over the 4 month exchange time.  I believe this is reasonable and amounts to 1 letter a month.   It is very disappointing to those fulfilling their commitments  when their partner does not respond in kind.  

One final note.  I want you to know that the Jane Austen Letter Writing Society's mission is to promote thoughtful, meaningful communication through the handwritten letter .  Although I promote the elegant aspect of letter writing (I love vintage items connected to letter writing) , it is to by no means eliminate people who do not have access to stationery or other writing implements.  The emphasis should always be on the content of the letter.  So, if you possess the ability to write a good letter, you are more than welcome!  And if you feel like you are a bit rusty with your letter writing skills, then still consider  joining the society, to help improve your skills!

Any questions?  Please leave your comments below or email me directly at JALWSociety@gmail.com.

I look forward to a new Pen Friend Exchange!

Write Letters,
Write Often!

Lady Pamela


Thursday, June 15, 2017

The Making Of Jane Austen Mail!

Some Recent Outgoing 
Jane Austen Mail


I've been enjoying making envelopes and sealing them with my new Jane Austen silhouette brass seal!   It takes quite  a bit of wax for this rather large seal.  But definitely worth it!






What ideas  do you have  for including in your Austen mail to make it "Austen Happy Mail"?  Here are a few I ideas I use: 

1.  a package of flower seeds
2.  a card with your mail tag questions
3.  stickers
4.  Die cuts, tags, fun things! 
5.  Tea, chocolate


Envelopes can be made using paper bought at any craft store, I use 12 X 12 paper and an envelope template.  But here pictured, the envelope is made from a damask kraft bag, tied with a bit of twine.  


These can be purchased here!







Here are some lovely letters that have been circulating around the Jane Austen Letter Writing Society on social media (Instagram).  So many charming letters!   If you would like to have your mail featured ,post them on  IG:   #Janeaustenletterwritingsociety .  I will post as many as possible!







Several of you may have corresponded with Lady Heather...she sends lovely mail!  And look at her Jane Austen postage!!!  I definitely needed  some of this in my life, so I put an order in for my own customized stamps!  You can get yours here   Thanks Lady Heather!

Several new posts are in the works, so check back soon!


Write Letters
Write Often,

Lady Pamela









Friday, May 19, 2017

New Etsy Store For All Your Jane Austen Stationery Needs!




Hurry on over to my Instagram to enter!




Announcing the Grand Opening of my new ETSY store:  JaneAustenMissives!!  I am having a nice give away on my intstagram account: Janeaustenletterwritingsociety
I am offering a Jane Austen Mini Kit, and a 4 sticker set of  Jane Austen Stickers.   Just go to my instagram account and follow the directions from yesterday's post.   

I want to also give a huge shout out to Miss Anne at Heart Sealed Art and Design for her amazing logo design and artistic  touch to my beautiful Etsy store.  Please go to Anne if you need any log or custom art design work!

So, hurry on over to my Instagram...and win some lovely stationery items for your Jane Austen Needs!

Write Letters
Write Often,

Lady Pamela


Saturday, May 6, 2017

Jane Austen Flip Book, Black And White


Black and White goodness for Lady Sarah!





The cover of the flip book , with a few modern twists.




The inside of this flip book, embellishments keep to the black  and white theme.  











I wrote the letter on several sheets of paper, because the letter I began in January  never got finished.  (I'm ashamed to say).  However, when this happens, I always send the old letter in along with the new letter  because I tend to story tell in my letters and the January letter actually was written while I was at a 1860's ball being a chaperone!  So, I had a few things to share  about the ball that I thought Lady Sarah would still enjoy.  

This letter did not fit inside the above flip book but I included it separately , but with the above flip book.  I put all of it in a cello bag to mail.   This letter had a belly wrap  made from pages of Jane Austen's Emma, then raffia ribbon tied and my Jane Austen Silhouette wax seal.   Happy travels to your destination...

Write Letters
Write Often.

Lady Pamela 

Tuesday, May 2, 2017

Pen Friend Sign UPs for Jane Austen Letter Writing Society

Calling All Janeites!!!!








Do you think you may be the only one in the WORLD that randomly quotes Jane Austen?    Do you wish you belonged to a society of like minded individuals who love classic literature, particularly Jane Austen?  Do you wonder, Is The Society Right For Me?


Would you like to have a custom selected penfriend, tailor made just for you?  Well now is your chance!  Summer Sign ups are going on now through May 1st -May 10th!  I know of no other service like the Jane Austen Letter Writing Society that attempts to match your personal likes and dislikes to the degree done here.  


Follow these simple steps for your customized Pen Friend: 1️⃣ Fill out the "Penfriend Application Form" which is located at the top menu bar. (look at the top of this page!) 2️⃣ Be as specific  as you can answering the questions ( this helps me when I go to match you with another great writer!) then copy and paste your completed form into an email! 3️⃣ Email your completed form 
to :JALWSociety@gmail.com.  That's it!

If you were put on a waiting list from the last exchange, you will be receiving an email from me asking you if you are still interested in being in this exchange.  I still have your email and will respond over the next few days.  

*Please, if you have never read any of Jane Austen's novels, please sit out this exchange, read one of her books , then join in on the Spring Exchange.

** If you do not think your schedule will accommodate a pen friend , please reconsider joining at this time. Every letter written deserves a response!  This exchange lasts 4 months (May-September) and the minimal requirement is 4 letters written to your Pen Friend during this period.  If you do not meet this requirement you may be put on a suspension list ( I hate to impose this , but we have had some flakers  much to my sadness!)

Open to all who love letter writing and is completely free! I will also be making some announcements soon about the benefits of belonging to this Letter Writing Society, so please stay tuned, by checking back at this site. 

If you have any questions, please feel free to send me an email. JALWSociety@gmail.com



Looking forward to hearing from you!  Send in your completed application by May 10th  (that's a Wednesday).  

I am, as always, your devoted servant,

Lady Pamela

Friday, April 21, 2017

Jane Austen Letter Writing Society Give Away!


I wanted to let everyone know that I have a store wide sale, 20% off everything in the store!



This sale includes all the Jane Austen Letter Writing kits and letter writing accessories!  This is the Jane Austen Letter Writing Society Kit, it is jammed packed ...bursting at the seams with all sorts of paper goodness.  It includes Jane Austen stickers, wax, wax seal....and more!  Here is a quick link!  Jane Austen Kit





Would you like to win this Jane Austen Mini kit?  This drawing is happening on my instagram account:  JaneAustenLetterWritingSociety  The details of the giveaway are there.  



This is also in the shop...the Jane Austen Letter Writing Society exclusive mail tag cards!


Are you running low on your favorite Jane Austen themed stickers?

These and so much more!  Take advantage of my "Spring Fling " sale going on NOW!




Friday, April 14, 2017

Let's Have A Jane Austen Tea and Parlor Party!

Or maybe a weekend retreat?



This coming July will mark the 200th year of Jane Austen's Death. Jane Austen has brought so much wit, humor and just plain good reading to us, we are so thankful for her life!    So, why not consider throwing a Jane Austen Themed Tea and Parlor Party?  I am beginning to make plans for mine, which means gathering up items over time that might come into play.   


Tea cup and tier cookie platter on clearance aisle at Ross.  Tea pot from Amazon.


I love tea accessories.  I love to have tea parties, but must admit that I haven't them as often as I should.   I am always trying to find frugal ways to decorate and to have themed parties.  I am slowly building up my Jane Austen themed party items.  I go to discount stores and always scour  the clearance aisles,  and of course the thrift stores are always great places to find inexpensive items.  I do not want you to think that I spend extravagant amounts of money on these items.   I am really just a poor relation from "Cheapside".  ;-)  I want  to encourage you to be frugal too.  So, I will try to let you know where I get my items (extremely discounted) so you can check these places out as well.   If you are belong to a  one income family like mine, your bread winner will love you for this.  

Cake stand for my cookies, borrowed from my daughter in law, who said she bought it for $5!




After a delightful time of tea, it might be refreshing to have a few activities .    How about playing this wonderful card game:  Marrying Mr. Darcy?  This darling game came to me by way of my very sweet niece , Sarah.  Thank you Sarah, you can see it will be put to GOOD use!




Another activity could be some relaxing coloring time from the  Pride and Prejudice coloring book!




It is always so much fun to have an envelope making session for some good Jane Austen themed letter writing.  Be sure to take advantage of deep discounts at crafting stores when they put their scrapbooking paper half off or more.  Try to make it your motto "Never Pay Full Price"!  It could even turn into a letter writing social!  Have your like minded friends bring a stash of fun things to share, and perhaps making an entire afternoon of it.  Who knows....it might even morph into a Jane Austen weekend retreat!  Now that would be quite felicitous, would it not?  


What about you?  Do you have some ideas that you could share perhaps about  a Jane Austen themed party?

Write Letter,
Write often!

Lady Pamela



Wednesday, April 5, 2017

How To Set The Mood For Letter Writing...



Letter Writing Rituals...



Do you ever find yourself in a frame of mind where you just can't make yourself sit down and write a letter?  Did you know that writing a letter requires a great amount of mental energy? An article I read recently talked about the relationship between creativity and mental and physical energy ( article ).  It all made sense to me.    I guess what I need to say to myself is to SLOW DOWN.   I know it's cliche to say, "slow down and smell the roses"...but there is much wisdom in that saying.  The other morning, I was sitting in my living room with a cup of hot tea  just gazing out the window.  I don't know how long I sat there just gazing, but it was so peaceful and re energizing.  The above photo was taken after I got up.

  
So, Step 1. Slow down, clear your mind of "the tyranny of the immediate".  It also helps to make sure you are getting proper rest and nutrition. 


Step 2.  Declutter your work area.  "A cluttered workspace evokes a distracted mind." was straight out of the article.  For me, not only the immediate work area needs to be neat and tidy, but also the entire room.  




Step 3:  Have supplies at the ready.  I usually spend a craft session or two making envelopes, or the bones of  several flip books.  It is a good idea (if you make your own stationery) to also have plenty of that available ahead of time.  I like to rubber stamp my sheets, but wouldn't that take an immense  amount of time if you were going through that process for each letter?  I also try to have "happy mail" packets ready to go.  I truly dislike searching everywhere for supplies.  It is draining .



Along with general supplies, stationery, envelopes,  stickers are a nice touch, and require no artistic talent.




Step 4:  Let's not forget to stop and take a break for tea!  A little refreshment along the way will recharge you!



Along with step 3, and having some "happy mail" (little paper gifts such as stickers, die cuts, etc. that you can share with your pen friend), be on the look out for items to "enclose" in your letter.  I found these sturdy scripture cards that I have started to enclose with  my letters.  





Once you have finished your letter by putting it in the envelope and sealing it up,  you may find it evokes a sense of accomplishment. For me, that includes the thought that  I was able to give the gift of a letter to someone.  This gift not only  was a tangible item of which I may have spent quite a bit of time creating, but it is a gift in another way.  It is a gift of my time in which I have  focused solely on them.  


Thinking about all of these things, makes me more aware of how I might learn to be more productive in my life in general, not just in letter writing.  I hope it has helped you too.   Please leave your comments below, and be a part of this conversation!  I would love to hear from you!

Write Letters,
Write Often,

Lady Pamela



Tuesday, April 4, 2017

Incoming Beautiful Mail....




Lovely Mail


I've had such a happy mail box!  And such generosity....I am just overwhelmed.  



This is a beautiful letter from Lady Anna.  She sent a nice long letter, with a swatch of fabric on one of the back pages that she plans to use in a refurbishing project.  It reminded me of the long ago days when women used to send fabric swatches from quilting projects!  And look  at that beautiful postcard of Holkham Hall in Norfolk,  England!


This tea!  I never knew that Downton Abbey tea existed!  Thank you for introducing me to it, Lady Anna.

My dear Lady Nina Ruth and her crafty, jewelry making ways.  She has spoiled me!

I am in the process of responding to all of these lovely letters.  Hoping things are going well with your pen friend partner and  just think, a new round of sign ups will begin in May!  

Write Letters,
Write Often,

Lady Pamela

Thursday, January 12, 2017

Outgoing Austen Mail!

I've Been Busy....


Here is some of my recent Outgoing Austen Mail.  I am very behind on my letter writing, but I am slowly getting caught up.  Once I get started, I can hardly stop, it is so much fun!  I love every aspect of it, from the reading of YOUR letter , from  selecting/or making my stationery, penning a response, to making a lovely envelope...I love it all.



I even decided, during our snow storm, to burn the midnight oil.  It was so cozy sitting at my desk while snow was falling softly outside.  I love this desk, it is one of 5 that we have in our home.  But this is my favorite one.  Writing by candlelight is one of the most relaxing activities one can do.  Give it a try.




Here is a long overdue letter to Lady Anna.  She has been so patient and is such  a lovely correspondent.
It is going across  the pond to the great UK!


Tied with twine, sealed with wax.    I put these letters into clear cello bags.



This letter has a page from Pride and Prejudice...Nina, see if you can figure WHY I chose this particular scene out of P&P for you!  (Think of it as a bit of a riddle, but it is based on something you revealed to me in your last letter...about a Mr. Darcy!)


Lady Anna, Lady Alaina, Lady Nina, and Lady Virginia....these are on their way to your mail boxes.



If you have written me, I will be working on a response to you as well.

Write Letter ,
Write Often.

Lady Pamela



Winter Pen Friend Sign Ups NOW


Deadline For Winter Pen Friend Exchange:

Monday Janurary 16th,  2017




Just a reminder that the Winter Pen Friend Exchange will be winding up as far as sign ups go on this coming Monday, 1/16/17.  After that there will be a waiting list.  Here is a link to the application that must be filled out  and information for joining the Society.

So what would Jane do?  Why she would join the Jane Austen Letter Writing Society, of course!!!!

Don't Delay!

Lady Pamela